This question / post is so off from the OPs it deserves its own thread, if you have a question or problem, and want answers / replies.
Mac Pro 1,1 and 2,1 don't have two dual-wide slots; the ATI 4870 is such of course as you know from having installed it - and even though Apple product page said "2008 or later" and won't just come out with a more accurate "Works in ALL Mac Pro models" it does work fine.
When
someone says something, be sure to take into account if it is the same Mac and other factors. So often I read "someone said" and it is just... best to close one's ears I suppose. Or grain of salt. Or you find a diamond in the rough.
Someone did some tests and found that CS4 definitely benefits from 1GB or more graphic memory.
The 7300GT isn't much of a graphic card, not only only having 10GB of bandwidth and 256MB memory. Just that you can't use a nice say GT240 $100 that has 1GB and 56GB. Or one of the newest with 1.2-2GB VRAM.
Adobe and Nvidia showed off a $1700 Quadro CX, a card with 2-4GB and designed
solely to offload (GPGPU and CUDA and someday OpenCL) rendering. Windows only, but then you can run Windows quite nicely on Mac Pro and have access to use more powerful and other options in graphics.
OS X isn't really good though at "off-loading" or using PhysX type technology. Or SLI or CrossFire.