Not only have I not figured out how to do it with 1 server, I can't get it working with 2!!! That document that everyone references is complete crap...it should give concrete examples, with diagrams, etc. One example use case would be the proxy MAS in the DMZ, with public IP, proxying back to an internal server behind the firewall running all the important services (web,mail,cal,address book)...with exact examples of everything from each IP, hostname, port access, etc. Wouldn't be hard to write this, get on the stick Apple, geessh! Another use case could be both servers on the internal network. Another use case could be combining functions and doing it all on 1 server (if this is indeed possible and supported).
I work in IT, as an engineer for a software company, and the answers I seek are not out there in any form today. It is crazy that Snow Leopard has been out for 2 months and the Mobile Access Server for example is a complete black-hole. Come on Apple! If you want people to take you seriously over Microsoft servers, you need to document everything, and have helpful documented examples for people
prior to launch. It's pathetic when people are paying 500 bucks after having paid 1000 for Leopard server just 1 year ago.