Same problem here - iPad losing network when it goes to sleep.
I haven't noticed most people mentioning it, but my iPad networking worked flawlessly for 3 days and starting this morning, I have to reconnect manually every time it goes to sleep. The iPad does retain the SSID and password, but I just have to go into settings to reconnect.
There have been no changes to my network since it was working perfectly last night. It also works fine once I reconnect.
iPad is 16gig, I have already tried rebooting and resetting network settings.
Router is Linksys dual-band b/g/n, two bands have different SSIDs and same security setting. Firmware is current version. I am connecting the iPad to the N-only 5.8GHz network. I also tried rebooting the router, but it is working normally with iPhones, macbook, and windows desktop. The support suggestions (
http://support.apple.com/kb/TS3304) were already my settings.
It's frustrating to see this problem now since it worked so well for the first couple days.