Ok, so this seems to fix the problem:
First update your computer and itunes.
2. while the ipad is connected to your computer, hold down the power button and home button together until the ipad goes off. This puts the ipad in recovery mode.
3. the computer will ask you if you want to put the ipad in recovery mode, confirm it and let the ipad go to reboot.
Note - This is different than rebooting your ipad. This resets the whole ipad, hardware and software.
4. once the ipad is reset, the computer will ask you if you want to set the ipad up as new or resynch it.
***CHOOSE SET UP AS NEW****
5. This will create new ipad on your system. I renamed it just to be safe. So from Joseph Schmoes Ipad, I did Jschmoes Ipad. No my name is not Joe Schmoe, just an example....
6. Once its setup, there should be nothing on the ipad other than the basic software stuff... Resynch, it.
7. Then setup your stuff, email accts, synch stuff, like music , videos etc.... calendar, notes...
8. log onto your app account, go to the purchased tab, and reinstall all your apps.
9, resynch the ipad with your computer after each level or reinstall.
Note- This creates a new backup each time...
10 Finally once your apps are reinstalled, resynch and copy any documents, (pages, word, pdf, etc....)
Finally resynch it again...
This worked for me.. NOTE- I did this with an apple person at the store, and this worked. so far, my ipad stopped crashing.... I wrote this on my ipad, reset up my bluetooth keyboard etc.. and it worked..
Good Luck..
George