Still having "coma" every few days, so called Apple tech, he confirmed that if you've done (1) hard reset, (2) done restore with backup, and (3) restore as new phone without backup, and none of those worked, they consider it a Dead on Arrival! So tomorrow I go to Apple Store genius bar to get the iphone 4 replaced (phoned ahead to make sure they have plenty of replacements). Of note, the second iphone4 (ordered same time, arrived same day) has been 100% fine this whole time without a single problem.