Hi all, just been reading through this thread as I'm on a bit of a Data Usage quest myself and I think I've found a quick solution.
Firstly, turn of all your data usage and reports, these will run randomly and as we've found out, the phones go into cellular data mode as soon as they are put into sleep mode. These reports can run at any given time and can easily use up a large chunk of your data when accumulated. Those settings are through General > About.
Scroll to the bottom of this page and into Diagnostics and Usage BUT as below, there is yet another setting for this further in another area. Set these to Don't Send.
Seeing as the phones go into cellular mode when they are in sleep mode, so they instantly start processing any data as cellular data, make sure your email and notifications are on manual only instead of auto-fetch as once any updates are noticed on a server, the phone will fetch those updates as well but also, go into:
Setting > Location Services
Scroll to the bottom and look for System Services
Turn off the options for DIAGNOSTICS AND USAGE.
Turn off the options for Location Based iAds
Turn off the options for traffic
I had the very same issue as so many seem to be having with extra high data usage through the night, around 70 - 80Mb which was killing my 200Mb data plan initially setup as I use an approx 90% WiFi connection. We've now already upgraded my plan to a 3Gig plan to avoid over-use and extra charges but now finding these settings, the phone barely uses 300Kb in any one day.
Something to try and would love to hear any more feedback if this helps you all too 😉
Neil