Then, this tells you that it is the AirPort Express that is acting up.
Perform a Hard Reset on the AirPort Express with it powered on by holding in the reset button on the device for 7-8 seconds.
Then, release the reset button and give the Express a full minute to restart
Restart your Mac
Set up the AirPort Express again to extend the network from the AirPort Extreme by temporarily locating the AirPort Express near the AirPort Extreme for the setup
Check to see if AirPort Utility is displaying the network setup correctly
If it is, move the AirPort Express back to the desired remote location
Try to keep a line of sight relationship between the AirPort Extreme and AirPort Express as much as possible. Unfortunately, even with line of sight, the AirPort Express will create a loss of at least half of the potential speed on your network. Nature of the beast when you try to extend a network using a wireless connection.