I can't remember iPhone backup encrypted password on iTunes!
I've seen plenty of posts on this topic, but perhaps not what I'm looking for.
I backed up an old iPhone on iTunes because I'm old-school and don't trust the cloud. I'll admit that I'm not good about backing up the phone and it had been 2 years since I had done it before (yikes).
I then went to the Apple store to get my new iPhone X. I traded in my old iPhone for credit. I told them that I had backed up my old phone on iTunes prior to coming into the store. So the salesperson then wiped my old phone clean before I left the store. Told me to just plug in my new iPhone X to iTunes when I got home. Fine. Easily understood as I've done it before.
However, when I got home, I was horrified to see that iTunes was asking for this encrypted password. I don't ever remember encrypting the backup or entering a password. I've looked on iTunes and can see that my wife had an encrypted password for her old phone from 3 years ago on the same computer. So perhaps the encrypted password is the same as what she had used? Unfortunately she can't really remember either.
I've read all the basic responses about how if you can't remember your encrypted password, there is nothing that can be done and you're basically screwed. I understand how to restore to factory settings, how to create a new backup of your old phone that is unencrypted, etc. My problem is that I now have my new iPhone X and my old phone was given back to Apple and was wiped clean. I have irreplaceable photos that I need to get and they're now locked into this iTunes encrypted backup. I've tried about 100 or so possible passwords but it's looking like a futile exercise.
I've been looking online, and it seems like there are a lot of third party password hackers for essentially this problem. It looks so easy to do. Does anybody have success with them? Are they safe? Or are they trojan horses for viruses? Do I have to worry that they will have access to everything on my computer while it runs? Any particular one that somebody can recommend if they've used one?
If I can get through this, I'm going to join the 21st century and start using the cloud...