How to change gender of the memoji? When i try to create memoji im getting female faces!🙁

The memoji faces are gender neutral. There is no gender switching.

You can add facial hair, thicker brows, wider noses, thinner lips for a more male look.

But at the end they are cartoon representations of a person. There is no actual gender to them.

You can add facial hair or hairstyles but there does not appear to be a switch for gender

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT208986