There are solutions, but they are several pages back, and they don't seem to work for everybody. Here's what I have surmised thus far, quoting my earlier reply.
"Looking through this discussion, I saw several potential solutions:
(a) Downgrade to Mojave or High Sierra;
(b) Get rid of any 32-bit software lurking deep in the system; and
(c) Switch off the sleep capabilities.
"Options (a) and (b) were clearly going to take some time, so I went for the 'switching off sleep' option, as a starting point.
"So far, no crashes. I have put the MBP to sleep manually and it has woken without any drama. Yes, it's only been about 15 hours now [updated the time], but I would have expected a couple by now, on a normal day. I started without external monitors, then added the two regular ones. It just handled it easily.
"Tomorrow morning I will know better. 24 hours will be a better test, and I will have it connected to a different pair of external monitors [I have already and no problems at all] and then a video projector. I'll let you know if there have been any crashes in that time."
Try the sleep option. The details are in a post about 3 pages back (about page 24 or 25 of this thread), and there are other details of the '32-bit software hunt' you can do, including how to do it and software that can help, and links to the downgrade option.
If the 'sleep' fix works, that's great. If not, keep it and try the '32-bit software hunt' option. There seem to be some drivers that are software specific that are still 32-bit hanging around, and often they are bit of code deep inside a large chunk that seems 64-bit. If that seems daunting or you've got too much stuff that you need that has 32-bit issues, go for the downgrade option.
Note that the file extension on Time Machine back-up files was changed with Catalina, so you will need to change that extension manually to access the back-up files with Catalina or Mojave. There are details of that in a post about 4-5 pages back.
I'm not sure that I have fixed it, but it may be a step in the right direction. Those who said that Adobe software had this 32-bit issue should note that some updates came out this afternoon (Thursday, 7th November, 2019) for the Creative Cloud apps (I think all 7 that I have installed noted that updates were available), so Adobe may be moving on the 32-bit issue.
Good luck with this, folks. Read back through the previous pages to see what solutions have been posted. There's 28 pages so far, so it may take. bit to see them all!