family sharing has wrong contacts

I setup family sharing with my daughter, seems like facetime, messages, her iCloud ID, etc. are all showing as hers. For some reason, all my contacts are showing under contacts on her iPad, as well as my ID card, for some reason contacts still thinks it’s my account not my daughters. How can I switch this? I went to setting and turned off contact syncing and everything but it’s still there. I’m on latest iOS and iPadOS software, iPhone 11 Pro, and iPad 7th gen.