"....FWIW, the Feedback Assistant is for those doing beta testing. It would make little sense to allow it for normal feedback....."
That sums up my feelings 100%. And thanks for all the other comments thus far. I think joining the Beta program for no real reason (or as often just to get the newest thing) is misleading statistically for Apple. It must look like "a million Beta testers and no bugs reported!"
I'll leave the thread wide open and unmarked for a while and mean time carry on with Apple.com/feedback
Ironically I only experienced and reported two bugs in iOS13 and they were both fixed, and Catalina has been bug free for me. I don't necessariluy like all the changes and it kept my knees warm for a while, but nothing I would call a "bug".