Calendar Notifications Rarely Sync Properly via iCloud Across Multiple Apple Devices.
I have a Late 2013 21" iMac running macOS Catalina 10.15.4, an iPhone 8 Plus and iPad Air 2, both running iOS/iPadOS 13.4.1 as well as an Apple Watch 5 running watchOS 6.2.1.
I create my Calendar events on the Mac which are shared, and supposedly synced via iCloud. However, the notifications never seem to sync properly. When I clear a notification on one device, they normally do not clear on one or more of the other devices and never on the watch. The strange thing is that it may work on both the iPhone and iPad, but very rarely. Most of the time, if I clear the notification on my Mac, it may clear the notification on the iPhone or the iPad but almost never on both simultaneously.
Alternately, if I clear the Calendar notification on my iPhone, it may clear it on my Mac or my iPad, but almost never both. If I clear the notification on my iPad, it may clear the notification on my Mac or iPhone but rarely both and so on.
I have had this problem for years now. This is a pure Apple environment (all Apple devices running Apple operating systems using Apple Software and Apple services).
It drives me up the wall that I am forced to respond to the same Apple Calendar notification on multiple Apple devices when they are supposed to automatically sync via Apple iCloud.
I have complained about this problem countless times on Apple Product Feedback (for at least three years).
Who else has seen this and is there a solution for the, extraordinarily aggravating, issue?
iPhone 8 Plus