Interesting ... well, I tried it again.
Again BCA initiated the installation and Win 10 2004 installed just fine (except this time the Boot Camp install didn't complete). I may have prematurely terminated it by rebooting after tons of dialogs leapt out at me telling me I'd have to reboot to proceed.
So, after installing Win maintenance seeing there was no Boot Camp I read an article about using BCA to grab the Boot Camp Win installer and rebooted into macOS.
Ran BCA and - surprise - BCA would allow me to remove the Boot Camp partition. Instead I downloaded the boot camp software on a flash drive and rebooted into Windows.
Installed the boot camp software, 1password, logi options, steam, and a AMD Mac driver package (good for all iMacs since some iMac lost in history) and rebooted into macOS. Everything seemed fine so I upgraded Parallels to 16, installed it, and went into Parallels to install on Boot Camp and - no Boot Camp option.
Odd I thought, so I went into Disk Utility and it hung during initialization. Tried to restart macOS and it hung on shutdown. Rebooted and tried to shut down again and again it hung.
Rebooted into recovery mode and run First Aid against Main and Main - Data and all checked out fine. Then for yucks went into the Startup Utility and set the Mac to boot off of anything.
Rebooted back into macOS and now Parallels sees the boot camp disk. Restarted and it restarted fine.
Everything seems copasetic except Parallels runs like a dog and won't let me set a resolution higher than something like 1200p, and it runs dog slow even given 10 cores and 64 GB. It wants to use system memory for graphics despite the fact that the Radeon Pro 5700 XT has 16 GB. I'd started out in "game" mode, so I reset it to productivity mode and gave it four cores and 32 GB - performance seemed identical.
Methinks I'm a tad too far ahead of the curve now - not sure Apple's recognizing Win 10 2004 as a trusted boot source, and Parallels doesn't seem too optimized at all for this Mac. At least everything's working though and the Mac will restart cleanly.
So ... I guess I'll just hobble along and wait for everything to catch up. Maybe if I'm bored I'll boot into Windows and try to install a game.
... or maybe I'll reengage with Netgear and Bitdefender over my RBK853s over Netgear Armor and the Orbi Wifi 6 routers. So many support calls, so little time ...
-- Thanks, Verne