I have documents to submit so I can get phone unlocked

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tech questions forum, you are not addressing apple here  just  fellow users

try

https://getsupport.apple.com/

and or

https://www.apple.com/feedback/

and or

https://www.apple.com/retail/geniusbar/

Sounds like you forgot the password to your phone, Read this article to restore your phone. If you forgot the passcode on your iPhone, or your iPhone is disabled - Apple Support

You locked my iPhone plus because I forgot the password

Your phone has a software that locks the phone after 6 tries with a 1 min disable that increases as more tries fail. We did not lock your phone nor did Apple. It is a security feature to avoid brute force hacking. Please also note that you are in Apple communities, we are not apple, we are all end users like you.

enclosing all the documents that I got from Verizon to prove that it belongs to me

We don't walk into Apple communities expecting that people are trying to break in to stolen phones.

you said four days and now it’s Sept 28th

Who said four days? The phone can only be disabled up to 24hrs before it has to be restore using iTunes. (unless you are running a very old OS)

please unlock that phone

We can't nor can apple. We do not have the password and cannot control your phone remotely.

I mean how do you know that the phone doesn’t have a code in it that I need to save my child’s life

In the case of emergencies, the option to dial 911 is still available on the lock screen.

hard to believe all this is over a lousy password

A password is a password. It's used to protect your phone against others. Theres no reason to have a password if its so easy to bypass.

What I can understand from your post is that

1, Your iPhone is disabled/activation locked

2, You are unable to access your Apple ID to remove the Activation lock because you forgot the password

3, You are trying to recover the password to your Apple ID which will take 3 days to process given that you don't have access to any of your devices.

they **** sure can unlock it they’re the ones that locked it to start

Uhh no they didn't lock it, the software did.

Ok, so activation lock is a completely different thing than passcode lock/disable. You technically did opt in because Activation Lock is enabled automatically when you set up Find My. This is also a theft deterrent, built into the iPhone. Apple didn't straight up lock your phone nor do they have the power to. If you still had your Apple ID and password that was previously used on the device, your device would know that you aren't a thief upon signing in.

More info on Activation Lock and how it is triggered - https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201365

While in activation lock, 911, 110, (IDK what country) is still possible by holding down the power button and either volume button. That will trigger a pop-up menu that gives you the option to make a emergency call or power-down the phone.

As of right now, all you can do is wait for that password to be reset. Nothing else can be done.

Your iPhone or iPad screen lock passcode is NOT known to Apple and is not available to Apple. You set it, and it is stored nowhere else but on your device itself. There is no mechanism nor technology by which Apple can reset anyone’s screen lock passcode.

The one, and the only way to reset a disabled iPhone or iPad is to erase it in itunes to reset it. There is no technology that exists to reset it remotely, nor without erasing it. iOS has been very explicitly designed this way so that if you forget your screen lock passcode, nobody, nobody at all can gain access to the device’s data.

Users are expected to have backed up their important or precious data, and can thus restore their data to their device after it is erased to reset it.

How to unactivate iphone

Nobody here can help you with that so call AppleCare, ask to be transferred to Customer Service and give them your full story.