Verizon, upgraded to 12 Pro (from 8 plus). I’ve been on the phone/chat with apple several times now. They basically refuse to send the ticket higher until they exhaust their list of things to try. Unfortunately they are making me wait 24 hours with every “fix”.
The latest one? The “senior advisor” me to toggle iMessage off and back on and wait 24 hours before calling them back. I basically made him come look at this thread (as well as several other reps), trying to get him to acknowledge this issue goes beyond my phone. I've tried everything anyone has mentioned this thread and still missing texts.
Interestingly, it seems like every time I miss a series of texts in a group, it usually starts with me not getting a text from one specific person....who is also on Verizon and has an iPhone 11 pro.
Unfortunately, they just have their list of things they have to make the user do before they ship it up to engineering, and if the reps are making customers wait 24 hours before trying the next thing on their list, engineering probably hasn’t even gotten more than a small handful of reports. Which means it’s not a high priority yet.
So keep calling and making them escalate the issue. It probably helps if you try all the things on this thread first (because if you don’t, they’ll make you do them one by one and wait 24 hours between each one).