Dogcow-Moof, I do not deny your experience ... and I'm very happy for you.
However, may I respectfully suggest that you stop implying that the issues others are having are somehow their fault. Yes, it's possible that Big Sur is perfectly fast and stable for some people under some patterns of use. Those are apparently the cases Apple tested the OS against before release.
However, there are many other users, like myself, who have come to trust that when a new OS comes out you can read about the changes and what apps/software may have compatibility issues to take care of them first, then simply upgrade and keep working as usual. I use my Mac for software development all day every day and have been using Macs since 1984 (yep, the original Mac). Most OS upgrades for the last 20 years have been completely uneventful for me, on multiple machines. Worst case, a feature I liked changed or disappeared or something. But I have never seen this level of instability (frequent kernel panics, spontaneous reboots, bugs in Apple apps, etc.) since before OS X. This really feels like the worst of the Classic Mac OS days. And, yes, I have done a full reinstall with no apparent improvements.
So for those of you experiencing the worst macOS experience in years ... it's not just you, and it's (probably ;-) not because you're inexperienced or stupid. It really is a buggy mess.
The fact that lots of people use it without issue is completely irrelevant for the many us for whom it really is a disaster compared to other OS updates.