iOS 14 incoming call Screen Notification Answer (green) reject (Red) too close together. Hangs up instead of answers

I wish I could take a picture of it. But when there is an incoming call while I am using the phone (for something else- an app) there is a small banner at to top of the screen with the red (hang up) Button and the Green (Answer) button on the top of the screen. There is no way to take a screen shot while the phone is ringing and ( I ) am using the phone with an app at the time it is happening. NO, we are not in the Zoom mode either. It is banner size. I am surprised you don't understand this. My wife on a different model (8), My daughter in another state (who works for that state) and myself all have the same problem when we are using an app on the iPhone: Small Banner at the top of the screen with the red / green button popping up while phone is ringing - to allow you (me) to answer or decline. Buttons always decline even if the green button is pushed.

BTW, this does not happen if I am NOT using the iPhone and just have a simple incoming call. It is when we are using or have the phone open to an app.

I think this would work better if the red/decline/hang up button were on the far left side and the green/answer button were on the right, OR at least they were further away from each other. They are too close to each other as they are now. My wife and daughter have small fingers, yet they often push answer but it cuts the call off instead. I don't have fat fingers but I blamed my larger fingers and tried to make a very conscious effort to hit the green button, but it rarely happened that I could answer the call.

Thanks again.

THANKS!!!!. I know two other people that are going to be happy with this. It has been driving us crazy.