i got the problem solved while working with the Apple tech. We did try restarting both, the watch and Apple TV, but that didn’t work for me (but maybe it will for someone else reading this). Part of my problem was that I was focused on the 4 steps to setting up my watch and it kept mentioning fitness app. So that’s the app I had opened up on my watch, but I couldn’t get passed step 2 which was choose your name/other on the Apple TV. At the bottom of the instructions it had “Note: You may need to open the Workout app on your Apple Watch before you can tap Connect.” Once I opened the workout app instead of the fitness app, there were several set up steps I had to complete before my name appeared on the screen (step 2). My feedback to Apple was to move that note higher in the instructions to help people who get stuck on step 2. I looked today and the note is now moved up to step 3. Hopefully, that will help someone else.