Disable autoplaying of music/audible in Carplay
I use Carplay on my Apple iPhone X connected to my Honda Clarity for navigation and other apps. Sometimes I like to listen to music or an audible book. But every time I plug in my phone, Carplay immediately starts playing my most recent song or audiobook, which sometimes I *don't* want, particularly if I have other people in the car. How can I disable the autoplaying without disabling my ability to play music or audiobook when I want to start them, and (obviously) without disabling Carplay altogether, since I rely on this for navitation. Apple provides so many choices for how to customize your user experience, that I am really surprised that they have not provided the choice to select whether or not you want Carplay to automatically start your music or not. Help!
iPhone X, iOS 14