Why doesn't Homekit " just work"?
OK, so I have a newly build connected home running homekit. Or rather trying to run homekit. Here are my devices:
7 Netatmo wifi security cameras, one of them connected to router over a wifi TP-link powerplug.
2 Ring elite doorbells (wired), connected to homekit over hoobs plug in
2 wifi Meross Garagedoor openers
2 bluetooth Nuki smartlocks with wifi bridge
6 Hue wifi spots and lamps
1 AppleTV 4k - wired to router over 2 switches.
4 iPhones - connected over wifi
1 iPad Air 2 - connected over wifi
1iMac 4K 2014 - connected over wifi
1 MacMini 2020 - wired to router over 2 switches
The homekit network is run over my Appletv 4k hub.
So here is the problem. Homekit constantly crashes, meaning several or like now, even all, devices show the dreaded "no response". Right now none of the above devices are responding in homekit, but all of them are accessible through the manufactorers' apps. This happens both over 4G/5G when I am away, but also over the home wifi network when at home.
I am at my wits' end. I have tried two different routers. One internetbox from the internet supplier, but also an ASUS AC-5300 flashrouter running dd-wrt. I have deleted and reinstalled all different accessories twice and reconnected them to the home hub. I have deleted My Home and done a clean install on a virgin new homekit account twice now, again installing everything anew. You can imagine the face of my wife when the garage doors, lamps, or even locks are simply not working. It makes life a pain in stead of being helpful.
The past year I have been seriously asking myself for the first time why on earth I keep spending top dollar on Apple devices if it just doesn't work. I was waiting for the new iPad pro to come out. I am expecting 2 homepod minis in May hoping they will function better as a homekit bridge than the appletv. But I am thinking of just cancelling them and switch to a completely different brand for home automation.
So I have a few very simple and straightforward questions:
1) Why doesn't homekit work properly and how can I fix it?
2) If you can't help me fix it, what brand do you recommend for the kind of devices I mention above so I can actually make my home automation work? I am definitely not married to apple anymore.
Apple TV 4K, tvOS 14