kukana2 wrote:
Apple support specifically told me “no” 3 party apps for malware checks are recommended. Now what?
This is a user-to-user support forum. If you want to restrict yourself only to Apple support, then you need to only talk to Apple support. Otherwise, they are going to be telling you one thing, and we will be telling you something else. You will annoy Apple support if you ignore their advice and do what people on the internet tell you. By the same token, you will annoy us when you refuse to follow our advice.
I don't know what you mean by "found 3 files that were suspicious". That isn't how Apple's built-in malware detection works. If it finds something, it will pop-up a dialog saying "XYZ will damage your computer". That's a bit more extreme than "suspicious". Also, it isn't even accurate. While you certainly don't want malware, it isn't going to "damage your computer" in any way. It may steal your identity, steal your credit cards, install backdoor rootlets, ransom your files, etc., but your computer will be fine.
Also, that dialog is just one part of Apple's built-in malware protection. Taken together, all of the different layers of Apple's built-in protection are very effective. However. This is a big one. Apple always allows the user to override its protections. People who regularly find themselves being tricked into installing malware can often benefit from 3rd party anti-malware protection.
Based on the evidence presented so far, you likely fall into that category. If Apple's XProtect found 3 malware files, I estimate that you have another 7 still installed. If those 3 files were installed in the first place, then you have likely overridden other parts of Apple's security and installed malware without realizing it. To be clear, this just a guess, but I usually do see multiple malware files installed. 3rd party antivirus apps are generally twice as effective as Apple's protections.
And finally, it turns out that Apple's malware removal isn't all that good. There was a significant incident a couple of months ago where an Apple security update disabled a lot of installed malware. Unfortunately, Apple's code only partially disabled the malware. Apple's bug actually damaged people's computers more than the malware did in the first place.