Wife’s airtag giving me constant alerts

I always appreciate when customer service doesn’t actually read the issue and just blindly submits useless help like a robot.

Not at all fam. We want to disable the notifications on our phones permanently not the airtag.

Hello firemediclex.

Thanks for reaching out to Apple Support Communities. We see that you need help turning off AirTag alerts. We will be glad to assist.

Let's try the following steps to turn off Safety Alerts indefinitely:

1. "Tap the message.
2. Tap Continue. If you need help finding the AirTag, tap Play Sound.* 
3. If the AirTag is attached to an item you're borrowing, you can tap Pause Safety Alerts to turn off "AirTag Detected" notifications for one day. If you're borrowing an AirTag from a member of your Family Sharing group, you can turn off Safety Alerts for one day or indefinitely. "

What to do if you find an AirTag or get an alert that an AirTag is with you 

Cheers.

I'm having the same issue with my roommates. We aren't related so we aren't on the same Family network but they both keep getting notified that the airtag on my keys is "following them" when we go for a walk or ride in the car together. There has to be a way to disable this for more than one day!

If it is also travel long with you, no one will get an alert. If it is not traveling with you, someone should get an alert is traveling with them for a a few hours. Initially it took a much longer period of time but their were a lot of “backlash” press stories about how easy it was for someone to stalk someone else for a couple days until Apple changed the period of time.

With that said, I don’t see any advantages to keeping your wife off your family group. Shared iCoud storage, shared Pritchard, shared subscriptions,etc. What am I unaware of to keep her off your family sharing?

Hi firemediclex.

The next best step would be to Contact Apple for support and service

Take care.

This resource should show you how to disable that feature - https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT212227