iMessages take forever to send
So I recently started having this problem barely 3 months ago I have an I phone XR. I sent an imessage to a friend on a Friday and the message didn’t say delivered and it stayed like that for a couple of days and I know their phone wasn’t off at all and they received the message days later and it said I had sent it Friday, this has happened multiple times w this person and it started happening with other contacts as well except they don’t receive the message until hours later. I have tried sending it as an SMS as well but it doesn’t deliver at all and I tried restarting my phone and nothing, I don’t know what else to do it’s just so annoying. I’m thinking of just upgrading but I don’t know if that will fix it.
iPhone XR, iOS 14