My note’s password doesn’t want to be reset

That is correct. If you forget a Notes password, the notes created under that forgotten password can never be opened. You may create a new Notes password, and it will be used for notes you create in the future.

You can't reset the password for a note unless you know the old password.

Correct. Well, there is one way - recalling and using the password used to lock it (them).

Correct, you can only unlock it if you recall the password for it.

Periodically the phone (and all apps within it that use Touch ID) will ask for you to use the passcode, or the notes password.

I forgot my note password I’m trying to open it but it’s not please helo how can I do it open

Only way it can be opened is if you remember the password.