peter4good,
Thanks for clarifying.
Can you tell us if this is happening with the Music app, or third-party music apps, or both? If you restart your device, does the issue remain?
If you're using the Music app, use the article below to guide you through removing the Music app and adding it back. If this is happening with third-party apps, you can do the same, and remove and reinstall the app and test to see if the issue persists.
Delete built-in Apple apps from the Home screen on your iOS 14 or iPadOS device or Apple Watch
You also mentioned that you do not have the option to change the song or album. Are you referring to this happening on the lock screen? Or if you have the app open that you're playing the music from?
Are you able to use Siri to change the song or album?
This article can help with test that out, if needed: How to shuffle music on your iPhone.
Cheers.