Xcode update stuck

Hi iPotential,

Welcome to Apple Support Communities. We're happy to get you going in the right direction for help updating Xcode. You can report any trouble you're having using the Feedback Assistant. Get started here:

Xcode

The guidance you need is under "Providing feedback and reporting bugs". We hope this helps you.

Have a great day!

Xcode 13.0 is as large as macOS Big Sur and it will take about an hour to download and install with a good Internet connection, and ample patience. At some point, it will install, or fail due to lack of available storage prior to the download.