Bob
thanks for that detailed information
Unfortunately, I have my settings for airdrop as you have suggested, but it still won't work. If I try to transfer a photo from phone to Laptop, I can see the laptop in the list of available devices, but when I select it, the transfer doesn't happen. The laptop is not aware of the file being sent and the iPhone continues to say 'waiting.' Eventually, I just cancel it.
I've used airdrop for years, but since buying the new M1 Laptop with Monterey OS (latest update) and my older iPhone X with latest iOS, I can't connect with bluetooth 9which is what this thread was about) and I can't use airdrop. The devices 'see' each other, but can not connect or transfer.
I've obviously tried rebooting, changing settings around etc etc, but nothing makes airdrop work for me so far
I'd certainly welcome any suggestions re getting airdrop to work as I used airdrop frequently - I would have thought it would be a pretty basic feature for apple to keep running - I've upgraded to their latest hardware and software and now it doesn't work.
BTW my iPhone still can use airdrop to my older devices - it's only the new Monterey laptop that is out in the cold