After a couple of days fighting off this dialog, I am now seeing it only intermittently. It currently isn't up on any of my monitors. I have had it go away and return a couple of times.
When it does appear, it's just as obnoxious. For example, last night I went to project an Apple TV purchase from my laptop screen, and the dialog sat above the playing show... You can't watch that.
Some combination of changing the Displays > Main Display setting and rebooting my system seems to address the problem, at least temporarily... today. I think. When one is trying to work, one doesn't always happen to notice the moment it disappears.