A fine suggestion, but it is easier said than done. I have no idea what email client or operating system the sender uses, the sender is almost certainly unaware of breaking vs. non-breaking spaces, what I find online about non-breaking spaces deals with line-at-a-time not global control from the sender's point of view, and I am looking for a solution for the recipient not the sender.
Of course, a simple work-around for the recipient is to Copy All and paste in Text Edit, which wraps according to window width. Apparently, Apple Mail just doesn't have this feature.