Bug in Home app when I invite my wife

This is super frustrating. When I try to invite my wife to my home, she gets the invite and when clicking accept it just spins and doesn’t work. And then I somehow lose admin rights to my home and when I look at her account on her phone, her name shows up with my profile pic. Then when I drill down into her details it shows my icloud id. Ultimately it fails to let us share a home. Wires are getting crossed some how and this bug has existed for years. Apple please fix this!