Hi Yaar Punjabi,
Welcome to the Apple Community.
Wondering which iOS version you have installed on your iPhone 12 Pro Max.
Re: "FaceTime screen rotation"
How to check the "Portrait Orientation" Lock button is on or off in iOS 15
https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204547
Change FaceTime video settings on iPhone:
says:
"During a call in the FaceTime app, you can turn Portrait mode on or off,
switch between cameras, or turn your camera on or off".
Complete article: https://support.apple.com/en-au/guide/iphone/iphfb3d2a12b/ios
Or you might want to check the Control Centre settings:
Edit Control Centre on your iPhone, iPad and iPod touch
https://support.apple.com/en-au/HT211812
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Re: "happens when i used other apps during FaceTime"
Wondering which method you used to return to FaceTime ... see if anything in these Apple support article helps
Use other apps during a FaceTime call on iPhone
(NB: Choose correct iOS version at top of page that opens from the link, for accurate info.)
https://support.apple.com/en-au/guide/iphone/iph3dc0cb20d/ios
Switch between open apps on iPhone
(NB: Choose correct iOS version at top of page that opens from the link, for accurate info.
https://support.apple.com/en-au/guide/iphone/iph1a1f981ad/ios
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We are all Apple users like yourself in this community.
So, if you want Apple to be aware of the difficulty you are having, there's a Feedback Form for FaceTime:
Apple FaceTime Feedback Form
https://www.apple.com/feedback/facetime/
All the best :-)