when i put my phone in silent mode, it shows that I have notifications silenced

Hello diawars82.

Thanks for reaching out to Apple Support Communities. We understand that notifications and alerts are silenced when you enable Silent Mode on your iPhone. We will be glad to assist.

Your post shows you're coming to the Communities from the following article:

How to put your iPhone on vibrate, ring, or silent mode

Please note the following information from the article:

"In Ring mode, you hear ringtones and alerts. In Silent mode, you don't, but your iPhone can still play sounds, like when you play music or videos."

Cheers.