I have been dealing for months with friends complaining about me not being notified of this message or that call. I checked notifications, focus, sounds, do not disturb....very frustrated. Finally today I decided to fix it. Googled. Found a lot of people having this problem. Tried this. Tried that. Finally...Reset all Setting. Lo and behold. Locked phone. Received text notification/sound. Went to set phone back up, custom sounds, wallpaper, etc. In Messages had to log back in with iCloud....notifications stopped working. WTH!? Remembered a post where a guy referenced iCloud breaking notifications. Logged out of iCloud...notifications work. Log back in. Nothing. Then remembered someone mentioned having to log out of messages on iPad. Was sitting at desk with my MacBookPro and AppleWatch on my arm. All latest hardware versions and iOS/MacOS versions. Noticed I WAS getting notifications on laptop. Closed laptop. Started getting notifications on watch but not phone. Took watch off. All the sudden phone is getting notifications. Reversed. Put watch on. No notifications on phone. On Watch. Opened laptop. No notifications on phone or watch...notification on laptop. Kind of cool but ultimately frustrating. Whether at work or home my laptop is almost always open. I have to conclude this is why I frequently am not notified of notifications when I'm in the next room. Apple needs to add a feature that allows you to either alert on all devices or set one as a "master" that always gets alerted or something. I hope this helps someone else who is dealing with this issue.