Mic/Speaker problems after updating to 15.5

Ok, here is an odd problem. After updating to iOS 15.5 my microphone and speaker stopped working. People would call me, but I could not hear them, neither could they hear me. All iOS apps would not send audio to the speaker, however YouTube would and other 3rd party apps would play fine, but none had access to the microphone. The microphone icon was greyed out during calls and ion the video player.

Then, I did the hard-reset/forced restart thing, and then the speaker worked with iOS and 3rd party apps, but none had access to the microphone.

Then, I did the hard-reset thing again, but now the mic worked, but the speaker was "offline". I could now record a voice memo, see the mic picked up my voice, but when playing back, nothing..

Then, I hard-reset again, and now it was reversed. The mic was off, but the speaker now worked and I could head the previously recorded memo?!?!?!?!?

When the speaker worked and the mic was off, the record button would not function when trying to record a voice memo..

I have tried recording video with both cameras/mics, but nothing..no audio..

I have tried resetting the phone completely. deleting settings and apps..

Nothing..

Any sugestions?