Who do I report to that my iPhone is being hacked by a developer?

Basichumanright22 wrote:

I already know what he has done… I am not questioning that and yes trust issues are my concern… you are failing to answer my questions… where do I report said issues? And how do I keep my devices safe … that is the question… I was never asking if he did it… I already know he did… I am in the process of changing my situation but I need to secure my devices and nothing I do helps!!!

If all of your gear is compromised, you either need to reset all of it, or use a separate device until this is sorted. Resetting all of it may not have the desired outcome, until and unless you can reset all of it completely, particularly if your password security is compromised.

Who do you report this to? You report your concerns to local authorities; to local police. They can work with Apple, as and when they need.

Or you can work through local victims rights advocates or legal representation. If there’s a contested divorce happening, legal representation is going to be inevitable.

They can work with you to assist in whatever plans or transitions or other actions might arise here.

How to secure your devices and your information was previously linked. Here it is again:

… https://help.apple.com/pdf/personal-safety/en_US/personal-safety-user-guide.pdf

If you suspect your devices were compromised, the iPhone and Mac and whatever else then gets factory reset and passwords reset on your Apple ID, mail accounts, cellular plan PIN, social media passwords, pretty much all of your password get reset, and you best enable two-factor authentication, and most or all of which was in the linked safety document.

iPhone reset:

… Restore your iPhone, iPad, or iPod to factory settings - Apple Support

And resetting your devices will remove any potential evidence, hence starting the discussion with police and/or your legal representation and/or domestic victims’ assistance. Quite possibly on an unrelated phone, whether borrowed a friend or neighbor’s, or a “burner”, or otherwise.