connecting problem

hi

i’ve been using airpods 2 for 2 or 3 years with an old apple id on my old iphone se , few days ago i bought a new iphone but now i can’t connect my airpods to it ,

just keeps popping up: you are permanently sharing audio with this airpods , if you disconnect them , you have to pair again ….

i removed them from my old icloud , i hit “ forgot the device “ on my old iphone , i reseted the airpods several times , i also changed the name of airpods on my old iphone but on the new iphone it still shows up with the older name : “ Arshia’s airpods “

it’s really annoying, btw it’s hard to afford a new one in our country and i don’t want to lose it

i’ll appreciate it if you help me out of this 🙏🏻 ( 2 screenshots included 👇 )