AirPods Pro 2 - Sensitive Microphone in Active Noise Cancellation?

Good afternoon all.

My question is for AirPods Pro 2 and AirPods Pro 1 users. When using AirPods Pro 1 in Active Noise Cancellation mode, touching the microphone part felt like touching metal and there was very little sound (not bothersome). Transparency mode also works very well, when you touch the microphone, you can feel that touch in the ear, which is annoying. Any touch sounds really loud in the ear in transparency mode.

It's been 2 days since I bought Airpods Pro 2, but ANC mode is almost the same as transparency. In Transparency mode, you just hear more of the surrounding sound, in ANC mode, less, but not enough. What bothers me the most is the sound that is felt when touching the microphone in transparency and ANC modes. I can't lie on the bed you know in ANC mode because I can feel the touch of that fabric and the sound is quite loud as if the AirPods are in transparency mode. Then when I'm in the car in ANC mode, I can hear the sound of car tires at 60% volume, or I can't wear a hoodie, because when the piece of the hoodie touches the microphone, I hear the sound of it. So the mic is that sensitive in both modes? Is this your experience or are my Airpods 2 defective? (In the meantime, I thought that it would be fixed if I updated to the latest operating system, but it was not fixed, 5B58 is the last OS).