MDM on personal iPhone - Businesses, unauthorized developer activity HELP!

I am a personal 'User' I have cycled through many hours and days with support. No one knows what is going on. Most likely because I am never able to speak with someone that understands the Enterprise platform. I feel this is happening via my carrier- but Fraud sent me to Tech support. Tech support told me my phone is hacked and to file a police report.

In combination I suspect that MDM is a gateway for an external developer to access my phone via various methods: webkit, Xcode, Apple Store Connect, SDK

I am about 99.99% sure I know why, but that is something that I will not disclose because most likely all of my activity is monitored; despite the very strict privacy settings I try to maintain.

Symptoms:

1. My apps will sometimes tell me they did not come from the App Store (Maps, FindMyiPhone, etc..)
2. When I make an attempt to chat with Apple support I receive a message to Use Messages to Connect with Business. When I have my iPhone in LOCKDOWN mode I receive a message that I cannot use Messages for Business when my device is locked down.
3. I only have one device. However, I am sharing across devices- many times or I have the option to. The choice is not grayed out.
4. I am unable to perform an Emergency Reset because I am usually sharing something - Notes, Home, Health, Books....
5. I do not use iCloud Drive due to multiple security concerns. Almost every time that I double check those settings apps show that they are using iCloud Drive. (Game Center, Health or Fitness, Notes, Books, Apple Support, Wallet) While clicking to turn OFF syncing I have had a battle with it changing right back before my eyes. (I have screen recordings)
6. Game Center will come on even though I have strict Screen Time settings.
7. I am generally either sharing, or my phone is gathering data from Health; even though that privacy option is supposed to keep that from happening.
8. Sometimes I am unable to even sign out of my phone due to 'restrictions'.
9. I have 'Share with Family' sometimes

*Those are only a few symptoms. That is minus the horror I see from the extraction of information I backed up into Kali Linux

As I have mentioned I have spent many many many hours with Support. One Senior Director did spend time Googling the services that show up in my Analytics. I have even uploaded screen shots and documents, but I never heard back.

I REALLY REALLY need help here.

I will add attachments. They won't be nearly the amount I have. I am begging!!!