Dell p2719h not detected by Macbook Pro 2016
I am attempting to connect the Dell p2719h monitor to my laptop via a docking station. This EXACT setup works perfectly for my work computer (also a Macbook Pro, but 2020). What do I need to do to get it to work here?
Both machines are running Monterey. The only difference is that I do use a MSFT office suite on the work computer. I have done "all the things"... rebooted, reattached cables, even tried to use a direct plugin (HDMI to USB-C) instead of the docking station (where I am using a display port cable from the monitor into the dock), but nothing works.
And to clarify, I can't trigger the "detect displays" button to even appear (yes, I know to hold the option key).
Please help!!
MacBook Pro 15″, macOS 12.6