Sharing Focus DND across devices

I would like to be able to silence notification on some devices while not on others. I have multiple devices and most of the time I don't want to turn it on my laptop but do want things silenced on my person. IE my phone and watch are on my person and I want to be notified but my laptop is at my desk or at my home and it's bouncing up notifications. A nuanced setting allowing me to control which devices are mirrored or can opt out of the notifications on the fly would be nice.