My beats show flashing white lights and red light even trying to connect to phone but are fully charged, and will not connect to phone.

Hi m_chavers

welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) Community

Re: Why won’t my bears connect to phone?

Wondering which Beats model you need to connect with your iPhone.

The flashing white lights may indicate that your Beats are in "discovery mode" ... meaning they are ready to be paired, as would be necessary.

Try Going to Settings on your iPhone, then tap Bluetooth, and select the Beats from the list of Bluetooth devices. 

If the iPhone isn't working right, try restarting it: Restart your iPhone

Else:

Apple Support have articles online that may help:

Set up and use your Beats Fit Pro

or

How to: Pair your Powerbeats2 Wireless earphones with your iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, Apple Watch, or Mac - Apple Support

Beats has a site with Support / help:

or articles like:

Set up and use your Powerbeats Pro with an iPhone, Mac, or other device

https://www.beatsbydre.com/support/how-to/set-up-and-use-powerbeats-pro

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Trouble-shooting:

How to: Reset your Beats earphones - Apple Support

What to do:

If you can't connect to your wireless Beats product - Apple Support

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More Support if needed:

Try Beats support: https://www.beatsbydre.com/support

or

Beats Flex Support https://www.beatsbydre.com/support/earbuds/beats-flex

or

Apple phone numbers around the world

Contact Apple for support and service - Apple Support

All the best :-)