whats the grey dot woth black dot in center symbolize on find my iphone

Hi there Shellback82,

If you are trying to locate a device using the Find My app on your iPhone, it will show a blue dot over the current location of the device if the device is online and connected to a network. If the device is offline, it will show the grey or black dot that it sounds like you are currently seeing. This article has more information about using Find My and all the different things that can be accomplished within the app: Locate a device in Find My on iPhone

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