Can't start new iphone se

If the software on the old phone is a more recent version than what the new phone has on it, you will not be able to transfer the data anyway. You can’t restore a newer iOS backup to a device running a lesser version iOS.

if that’s your situation, you will have to update the new phone first. You can try using another WiFi network, or update using a computer if you have one.

You can also try restarting your router and the new phone. Restart the router first, and let it boot up. Then restart your phone and try again.

Migration Assistant is computer to computer. It doesn’t work for an iPhone.

If you want to update using a computer, see this.

Learn how to update your device manually if you're using a Mac with macOS Catalina or later, or if you're using a Mac with macOS Mojave or earlier or a Windows PC.

Actually, the data transfer can’t start while the phone is updating. Updating the old phone has no effect on the new phone not updating.

Are you able to restart the new phone? If a standard restart won’t work, try a forced restart as explained in here.

Force restart iPhone - Apple Support

You may need to click on one of the links for the correct instructions for your model of SE.

Tawnie- Said:

"Can't start new iphone se: Is there anything I can do to either get it to actually download the update or leave it till after the phone is set up and download it later?"

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Update with a Computer:

You should update using my computer. Then, perform he transfer with Migration Assistant. Use my User tip to find out how to perform the update thous use of a computer: Update your iPhone Using a Computer - User Tip

Tawnie- Said:

"Quick start is what I'm trying to use and I can't update first because the data transfer is part of the set up process which includes the update so I can't do that first because I can't get into the phone before it is set up."

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Stalled New iPhone:

If it is stalled, then you'll have to Force Restart the iPhone, if it is stalled. See where that get you.

Restfrom a Backup:

Did you ever back up your iPhone prior to all of this? If so, then restore your iPhone format he backup. In not, then take this as a learning experience, knowing to always create a backup of your iphon device, prior to all of this. That way you have something to restore your iphone from should anything go wrong with the reset.

Tawnie Said:

"It's trying to do the update as part of the data migration process, connecting it to my computer when it isn't set up isn't going to help with that."

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As Demo said: "Migration Assistant is computer to computer. It doesn’t work for an iPhone."

Quick Start is what to use: Use Quick Start to Transfer Data to a new iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

So, update, then use Quick Start.

I wish I had something else to offer, but I think at this point, it’s probably time to contact Apple for help. You can start here.

Contact - Official Apple Support

I’m glad to hear that Apple support was able to help you get this resolved. Thanks for posting the solution as well. It may help somebody in the future.

Tawnie- wrote:

I tried it first before updating the software on my old phone and it wasn't working so I updated it and it still isn't working

You tried what first? Explain step by step what you did please.

You say to update the new phone first but I can't do that because it won't start up without the update which is part of the data transfer from the old one to the new one.

I’m not sure I understand. The new phone should start up (power up) no matter what iOS it is currently running.

Question. I got a call on my new phone while I was in update limbo. The e-sim already having transferred. If I wipe this AFTER doing the in order updates you have described. . . will I lose the e-sim and will it be gone forever? Because my old phone is not a functioning phone right now?