Dear Grant,
thank you so much for your most helpful reply!
Fortunately, I still had the charger from my previous MacBook Pro with a 3 pin plug and cord on it, so I swapped out the 2 pin plug that came with my new one and the tingling seems to have vanished. Likewise, I tried my previous MacBook (2015 15" pro) with the two pin plug and the problem appeared for the first time on that MacBook! Unbelievable!
The question now is why did Apple ship me a refurbished MacBook Pro M1 with the wrong plug?, or maybe even charger for my country? (New Zealand). Do you know what country they are refurbished in?
One thing I have decided is I will never purchase an Apple refurbished product again. To save a few hundred dollars it has't been worth the stress/grief.
I have already spent 4 hours on the phone being passed around by Apple Support about the keyboard issue. Terrible way to spend a Friday afternoon. However, I have updated the M1 to Sonoma over the weekend as advised and as I am typing this message to you my typing is much improved. In fact, except for when I first sat down, it's been perfect, so I am feeling confident enough with this machine to log into work again.
Thanks again Grant!, it was really decent of you to take the time to help me out with this problem. Really had me down!
Best wishes,
Carlos