How to Unlock A Disabled iPhone without Losing Data? , How to update an iPhone without backing up ? < (with itunes)

I changed my iPhone screen password for days in a row to take security precautions. and in the end, due to the confusion I experienced, I entered my password incorrectly. My iPhone was locked after trying the wrong password. My iPhone gave a warning that it is not being used. I haven't been able to use my iPhone for days.

I think my iPhone will always be locked because I don't want to lose my files.

I can't restore it because I don't want it to be deleted.

I just want to upgrade to iOS 17 and be able to unlock my iPhone with my old password.

When I update via iTunes, I am worried about restoring and resetting my phone.

There are images and messages I received due to the judicial process on my iPhone. I don't want to restore my files because I didn't back them up.

I can sign in to my apple ID, I also have the recovery key.

BUT I changed my iPhone passwords every day due to privacy and security concerns. I also turned off web access to icloud.

Please show me a way to use my iPhone again without deleting important files on it.

I would like to state again that I do not want to restore or restore.