Hello ineedhelppls3210,
This might be the similarities in your faces.
First, delete any facial recognition profiles saved, and make a fresh new one. Make sure there are no alternate appearances confusing the system: Set up Face ID on iPhone - Apple Support
"To set up an additional appearance for Face ID to recognize, go to Settings > Face ID & Passcode > Set Up an Alternate Appearance, then follow the onscreen instructions."
If he is still able to unlock the device, it may be due to his age and the face as he is your sibling. You will need to turn it off and use another option: About Face ID advanced technology - Apple Support
"The probability that a random person in the population could look at your iPhone or iPad Pro and unlock it using Face ID is approximately 1 in 1,000,000 with a single enrolled appearance. As an additional protection, Face ID allows only five unsuccessful match attempts before a passcode is required. The statistical probability is different for twins and siblings that look like you and among children under the age of 13, because their distinct facial features may not have fully developed. If you're concerned about this, we recommend using a passcode to authenticate."
Thanks.