T2 continual firmware problems
Been having continual problems with firmware since I bought T2 machine. Have reformatted and upgraded several times. Reformatted, revived, and upgraded a few months ago (to Ventura). Problems were resolved for about four days and then returned. Upgraded again a few days ago (to Sonoma). Problems were resolved for about 24 hours and then returned. This tells me it is a software issue. Problems vary in firmware UI, but there are consistencies in some other problematic behaviors also. The consistencies include: remote rebooting, especially when I leave home (not based on time away from machine). Concomitantly, I get: flickering Touchbar; dialog box upon soft reboot saying my computer shut down with a problem, would I like to reopen apps, and when I say no it does so anyway; variable behaviors with resetting SMC. Recently discovered Safe mode and Diagnostics do not work at all. Startup Security Utility is newly missing from firmware UI, so I cannot disable firmware passcode to reset PRAM or go into verbose mode. Some most recent console logs not viewable. When attempting first aid in recovery mode for firmware partition, got a dialog box saying it could take several hours and would be better if I was in recovery mode (again, I was *in recovery mode). Can no longer access terminal through recovery mode. Using terminal via OS utility, basic commands not working, like ls. I tried becoming a developer because I am tempted to delete property list files and KEXT files at firmware level, but do not know enough to know what will be safe vs. what could brick my machine. However, I am extremely impoverished and cannot afford the $99. I don't have a car and am disabled so bricking machine is costly and difficult. Please help.
MacBook Pro 13″, macOS 13.5