Carplay issues
I have same issues with carplay not connecting and sometimes I have to plug and unplug until it connects.
Recently I have been doing all of the iphone updates and I have noticed that the connection has improved. I am not able to say it's fixed, but I have been having a better experience with car play and my Jeep 2020. I was getting really frustrated but I feel like they are fixing the problem. Let me know if you have updated your phone and what is your experience.