Perhaps one of the touch 'haptic' settings may be set differently
so as to gain some control over this aspect of screen sensitivity?
While I've no direct access to control my own iPhone, articles
about this may or not be useful to consider some path forward.
Note the following article suggests some ideas that could help
"Adjust settings for taps, swipes, and multiple touches"
- Go to Settings
> Accessibility > Touch > Touch Accommodations, then turn on Touch Accommodations. - You can configure iPhone to do any of the following:
"Adjust settings for touch-and-hold gestures"
The touch-and-hold gesture reveals content previews, actions, and contextual
menus. If you have trouble performing this gesture, do the following:
- Go to Settings
> Accessibility > Touch, then tap Haptic Touch or 3D & Haptic Touch. - Choose the touch duration—Fast or Slow.
- On an iPhone with 3D Touch, you can also choose the pressure needed—Light, Medium, or Firm.
- Test your new settings on the image at the bottom of the screen.
Adjust how iPhone responds to your touch - Apple Support
"Go to Settings > Accessibility > Touch, then tap Haptic Touch or 3D & Haptic Touch.
Choose the touch duration—Fast or Slow. On an iPhone with 3D Touch, you can also
choose the pressure needed—Light, Medium, or Firm. Test your new settings on the
image at the bottom of the screen. Turn off Tap to Wake.."
//support.apple.com/guide/iphone/adjust-how-iphone-responds-to-your-touch..
How to Change Touch Sensitivity on iPhone for Haptics - Guiding Tech
https://www.guidingtech.com/adjust-haptic-touch-sensitivity-ios-13/
[I'd noticed this occurs even with an older iPhone SE (1) that
does not like to respond for me with fingers, so I use Stylus.]
..Hopeful this matter may have success after setting adjustments..
